The value of your life is not reflected in the eight hours you work, but in the eight hours after get off work.
The value of your life is not reflected in the eight hours you work, but in the eight hours after get off work.


But most people still highly associate their self-worth with work, which will lead to extreme inferiority or confusion when job hunting or workplace problems occur. I would like to remind everyone: do not associate self-worth with work.
- When you associate your self-worth with work, to a certain extent, you give the right to evaluate yourself to the work or the superiors in this job. However, the evaluation system at work is mostly subjective and serves the vested interests. The evaluation under such motivation naturally does not have complete reference value, but will make you fall into the plight of being judged.
- Work can realize part of the self-worth, but it is definitely not all. And the so-called self-worth at work can be replaced by other scenarios outside of work: if you want a sense of accomplishment, you can get it from your hobbies, and if you want a sense of identity, you can get it in family collaboration and social welfare activities.
- Please believe: you are a multifaceted and three-dimensional you, and your value should not be defined by work. If you lose your job, get laid off, or encounter harsh comments in the workplace, in most cases it only means that you are unlucky or the other party is not good, and it has nothing to do with your ability.
-The more valuable things in life are often outside of work. For example, pursuing what you love, exploring more possibilities for yourself, and spending more time with friends and family are more valuable than work, but they are often sacrificed and ignored by us.